Saturday, September 03, 2005
Yippie!! Today is the start of the holiday. i have been waiting for this day..although my holiday seems pack in the morning, but as long as i have some free time, i am satisfied already. but i really hope to have a full day home jus for one day..no nothing..just stay at home...it have been a long time since i really can have one full day home...
Anyway..during dinner, my family went out to eat. we were discussing that maybe the dunno when holidays we could go to Africa! WOW thats my dream country to visit.!! think of all the cool animals i am going to meet! but i promise i will still go there one day if my parents decide to go to another place..anyway i am still hoping!! ~
hmm... now i am bored so i decide to copy out a book strictly for GALS only! hope it helps you find your Mr Right! =)
It turns out that men are just as frustrating now as they were when you first became aware of their existence.
Men are ridiculously pig-headed and stubborn. They are completely unable to express their feelings, because men have no idea what real strength is.
Men are obsessed with size and appearance.
They are inherently jealous and suspicios, often paranoid about relationships, and will go to great lengths to avoid commitment.
And you know all those childish pet habits they had that you thought they would eventually grow out of?
Well, they dont. Basically, they are unreliable and goofy, because the fact is, men are not very bright.
Its no wonder, then, that trying to have a quality relationship with a man can be the best way to bring on a migraine.
Of course, its easy to ignore the downstream and all the warning signs when an exciting romance is just starting.
At this stage, you not only accept his pointless interests, you embrace them as "cute" and "quirky".
You may even try to involve yourself in his silly games to maximise "quality time" together.
You'll do everything you possibly can to maintain the relationship's momentum.
So you cant hear, or wont listen to, that little voice inside your head whispering "Danger, dander,danger! Loser alert! Loser alert! "
You don trust your female intuition that something unpleasant is about to happen.
Instead, you put all your feelings, hopes, and dreams into his hands, becoming a complete romantic martyr.
Amd then, all of a sudden, you come crashing down to earth in the most dramatic fashion imaginable.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Another nightmare relationship!
"D'oh" You cant believe its happened again.
All in all you're left feeling like you've been soaking in a bathtub full of squid livers. Men, yeee-uck! Who needs them?
But is dedicating yourself to a chaste lif of religious devotion, high fibre granola, and sensible underwear the only way for a moden woman to find true bliss?
No, it probably is'nt.
In your heart you know how life is supposed to turn out. We've all seen how Mother Nature brings two creatures together in the right place at the right time.
They then fall madly in love and live happily ever after.
And so you ask yourself: "If a penguin can have a worthwhile, stimulating relationship, why the hell cant I?"
Or maybe you ask yourself: "Would I be happier if I started dating a penguin?"
This might sound like a stupid question until you wake up and realize that men and women do not always form the natural union you've been led to believe.
And thus, in some cases a women needs a man like a bear needs a bicycle (or is it "like a fish needs a snowmobile"?)
Anyway, the point is that men and women are essentially different species, which is why it can be so hard for them to stay together.
In layman's terms, as a species, men are simply not as evolved as women.
This is obviously the cause of the painfully backward male attitude toward relationships, which I'm pleased to say has gradually been refined over the last million years, although there is still substantial room for improvement.
What men desperately need are good make role models. Sadly, there are none.
Even if we could build a "perfect man" from scratch, he would still have flaws. You must embrace this fact if you wish to stay sane.
One of the keys to a successful relationship is knowing what you've looking for-you might not have room in your life for a man right now. But even if you dont know what you want, you should acknowledge that and go on from there.
Men don know what they want either, but they dont even know that they dont know. This is clearly not a good platform to build a relationship on
When you are evaluating a potential "Mr Right" candidate, the only important questions are about how you feel. Do you feel special? Do you feel loved and respected? Do you feel that the relationship is bringing out your best?
Too often women get bogged down on incidental issues, like " What is his mother like?"
"How would we look going out together?" and "How many relationships has he been in?"
Wondering about such abstruse hypotheticals like "What kind of father would he be?" and "How might he look in fifty years?" are really just a form of self-inflicted mental abuse.
So forget about the past or the distant future. There is no way to reveal your destiny other than to make it turn out the way you want it to.
Anyway, no one can really see into the future, and anyone who says they can is not someone whom you would like to be stuck next to on a long international flight.
This merely serves to remind us once again how important it is to listen to that little voice inside your heard when it says "Mr Wrong!"
Seriously, though, if a man doesnt measure up you should take immediate action.
You only have one life to live, and the clock is ticking.
You cant afford to answer the door for every creep who comes knocking, you dont have time to chase men who are'nt worth catching.
And you certainly shoudn't be fighting over them. You should leave that sort of unseemly and childish display to men, who have nothing better to do.
But no matter what happens in your relationships, you must never forget that falling down and getting up again is a part of life.
Even more importantly, you must never forget that only you are responsible for your happiness. No other person is necessary to complete you.
Think back to the times when you were truly happy- to when you felt you could do or be anything you wanted. Well, nothing has changed.
The world is still the same wonderful place it was when you were a little girl.
The only difference is now you are old enough, smart enough, confident enough, and strong enough to take on any challenge that life wants to throw at you and to realize your dreams on your terms.
There has never been a better time to be a women in the history of the planet than right now. You can do whatever you want.
Get out there and take what's yours.
Here's the bottom line. If you are true to yourself and can love yourself for who you are, then other poeple will love ou for who you are too and will yreat you accordingly.
And by pursuing your dreams with passion, you will attract a man who is pursuing his dreams with passion- an enlightened, inspired man who will appreaciate the real you.
When you run into this lucky individual, you'll know it was meant to be.
In his eyes you will always be glamorous and beautiful.
He will be someone you can grow old with, someone who will show you exactly how true love is meant to feel.
This is not summer fantasy: this is reality. And what's more, you deserve it!
Not beacause you've the most graceful butterfly in the garden, but simply because you're you, and you're pretty damn fabulour!
At the end of the day, its your party. Enjoy it!
Finally type finish le.. haha
Anyway..during dinner, my family went out to eat. we were discussing that maybe the dunno when holidays we could go to Africa! WOW thats my dream country to visit.!! think of all the cool animals i am going to meet! but i promise i will still go there one day if my parents decide to go to another place..anyway i am still hoping!! ~
hmm... now i am bored so i decide to copy out a book strictly for GALS only! hope it helps you find your Mr Right! =)
It turns out that men are just as frustrating now as they were when you first became aware of their existence.
Men are ridiculously pig-headed and stubborn. They are completely unable to express their feelings, because men have no idea what real strength is.
Men are obsessed with size and appearance.
They are inherently jealous and suspicios, often paranoid about relationships, and will go to great lengths to avoid commitment.
And you know all those childish pet habits they had that you thought they would eventually grow out of?
Well, they dont. Basically, they are unreliable and goofy, because the fact is, men are not very bright.
Its no wonder, then, that trying to have a quality relationship with a man can be the best way to bring on a migraine.
Of course, its easy to ignore the downstream and all the warning signs when an exciting romance is just starting.
At this stage, you not only accept his pointless interests, you embrace them as "cute" and "quirky".
You may even try to involve yourself in his silly games to maximise "quality time" together.
You'll do everything you possibly can to maintain the relationship's momentum.
So you cant hear, or wont listen to, that little voice inside your head whispering "Danger, dander,danger! Loser alert! Loser alert! "
You don trust your female intuition that something unpleasant is about to happen.
Instead, you put all your feelings, hopes, and dreams into his hands, becoming a complete romantic martyr.
Amd then, all of a sudden, you come crashing down to earth in the most dramatic fashion imaginable.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Another nightmare relationship!
"D'oh" You cant believe its happened again.
All in all you're left feeling like you've been soaking in a bathtub full of squid livers. Men, yeee-uck! Who needs them?
But is dedicating yourself to a chaste lif of religious devotion, high fibre granola, and sensible underwear the only way for a moden woman to find true bliss?
No, it probably is'nt.
In your heart you know how life is supposed to turn out. We've all seen how Mother Nature brings two creatures together in the right place at the right time.
They then fall madly in love and live happily ever after.
And so you ask yourself: "If a penguin can have a worthwhile, stimulating relationship, why the hell cant I?"
Or maybe you ask yourself: "Would I be happier if I started dating a penguin?"
This might sound like a stupid question until you wake up and realize that men and women do not always form the natural union you've been led to believe.
And thus, in some cases a women needs a man like a bear needs a bicycle (or is it "like a fish needs a snowmobile"?)
Anyway, the point is that men and women are essentially different species, which is why it can be so hard for them to stay together.
In layman's terms, as a species, men are simply not as evolved as women.
This is obviously the cause of the painfully backward male attitude toward relationships, which I'm pleased to say has gradually been refined over the last million years, although there is still substantial room for improvement.
What men desperately need are good make role models. Sadly, there are none.
Even if we could build a "perfect man" from scratch, he would still have flaws. You must embrace this fact if you wish to stay sane.
One of the keys to a successful relationship is knowing what you've looking for-you might not have room in your life for a man right now. But even if you dont know what you want, you should acknowledge that and go on from there.
Men don know what they want either, but they dont even know that they dont know. This is clearly not a good platform to build a relationship on
When you are evaluating a potential "Mr Right" candidate, the only important questions are about how you feel. Do you feel special? Do you feel loved and respected? Do you feel that the relationship is bringing out your best?
Too often women get bogged down on incidental issues, like " What is his mother like?"
"How would we look going out together?" and "How many relationships has he been in?"
Wondering about such abstruse hypotheticals like "What kind of father would he be?" and "How might he look in fifty years?" are really just a form of self-inflicted mental abuse.
So forget about the past or the distant future. There is no way to reveal your destiny other than to make it turn out the way you want it to.
Anyway, no one can really see into the future, and anyone who says they can is not someone whom you would like to be stuck next to on a long international flight.
This merely serves to remind us once again how important it is to listen to that little voice inside your heard when it says "Mr Wrong!"
Seriously, though, if a man doesnt measure up you should take immediate action.
You only have one life to live, and the clock is ticking.
You cant afford to answer the door for every creep who comes knocking, you dont have time to chase men who are'nt worth catching.
And you certainly shoudn't be fighting over them. You should leave that sort of unseemly and childish display to men, who have nothing better to do.
But no matter what happens in your relationships, you must never forget that falling down and getting up again is a part of life.
Even more importantly, you must never forget that only you are responsible for your happiness. No other person is necessary to complete you.
Think back to the times when you were truly happy- to when you felt you could do or be anything you wanted. Well, nothing has changed.
The world is still the same wonderful place it was when you were a little girl.
The only difference is now you are old enough, smart enough, confident enough, and strong enough to take on any challenge that life wants to throw at you and to realize your dreams on your terms.
There has never been a better time to be a women in the history of the planet than right now. You can do whatever you want.
Get out there and take what's yours.
Here's the bottom line. If you are true to yourself and can love yourself for who you are, then other poeple will love ou for who you are too and will yreat you accordingly.
And by pursuing your dreams with passion, you will attract a man who is pursuing his dreams with passion- an enlightened, inspired man who will appreaciate the real you.
When you run into this lucky individual, you'll know it was meant to be.
In his eyes you will always be glamorous and beautiful.
He will be someone you can grow old with, someone who will show you exactly how true love is meant to feel.
This is not summer fantasy: this is reality. And what's more, you deserve it!
Not beacause you've the most graceful butterfly in the garden, but simply because you're you, and you're pretty damn fabulour!
At the end of the day, its your party. Enjoy it!
Finally type finish le.. haha
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